Okay, I'm honestly hoping that this is a first for Hella Positive Pinup: I'm a Beauxbatons. For those of you who are not Potter-heads, this won't matter. For those of us who are, we don't all have to fit into a Hogwarts house! Part of why I say I'm more of a Beauxbatons student is that my erotic self enjoys feeling elegant, lady-like, romantic, and a little exhibitionistic. Just like the Beauxbatons students' entrance in Goblet of Fire, I love feeling all eyes on me, preferably while I'm dancing in a tailored vintage dress. On the other hand, my erotic self can be equally silly, scrappy, and mischievous. Whether that means embodying a succubus or a flouncing fairy sprite, I love not taking myself too seriously.
When not channeling witches, demons, and fairies, I'm a ciswoman who responds to she/her pronouns. I’m mostly androphilic (attracted to masculinity), though the more I've played with cishet couples the more I've gotten to explore my attraction to femininity as well. Right now I'm enjoying a solo non-monogamous lifestyle, though at some point I'd love a monogamish partnership. I'm a sucker for chivalry, but I melt over anticipation and and domination. My ideal partner is someone who holds the door, but isn’t afraid to tackle me to the ground and give me a good spanking when I deserve it.
My favorite aspect of my sexuality is my Core Erotic Theme (read “The Erotic Mind” by Jack Morin). For those who haven't been nerding out about sex for the last several years, let me explain: our CET is a pattern that emerges in our hottest fantasies/experiences and, fascinatingly, often traces back to a childhood wound. By eroticizing our wounds, we gain control over them and use them for pleasure, healing, and growth. As for me, I had one neglectful parent and one smothering parent. So it follows that my CET includes both being the focus of someone’s attention (the opposite of neglect), and having that someone take their time and exercise restraint in their approach until I’m ready for more (the opposite of smothering).
My CET leaves so much room for creativity and exploration, that my erotic life gets to constantly evolve. This year, I started modeling with several sex-positive and body-positive boudoir photographers, and it's one of the most empowering things I've ever done. I recommend it (and especially HellaPositive!) to anyone who could use a major confidence boost!
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